HANDOUTS

Feeling Vocabulary
Open-ended Questions
Ideas for Self-Soothing
Emotional Abuse Questionnaire

PROCESSES

Available for purchase – $15 each

TOUCHSTONE MEETING – $15
The Touchstone meeting is a tool Connie has been using in her own life and with her clients for over twenty-five years.  It’s a weekly process which lasts between 30 and 60 minutes; a place to talk about what is working well between you, to clear away complaints (so that they don’t build up over time and become an emotional tsunami), to discuss the business of life and finally, to learn how to handle perpetual issues between you.

You will receive a copy of the Touchstone meeting, instructions on how to use it and also, Connie’s assistant Cat Enright will be available to you for two brief consultations to answer any questions you might have once you have received the documents.

ADDRESS FLOODING – $15
You will learn what Flooding is, why it is so destructive to your relationship and receive a protocol for how to avoid flooding while getting to the true issue that needs to be discussed.

LOVING SPEECH/DEEP LISTENING – $15
This is the process Connie teaches all of her clients because — it works. It truly does.  Using this process well can change your relationship.  You will receive a detailed description about the Loving Speech/Deep Listening process and how to use it.

AFTERMATH OF A REGRETTABLE EVENT – $15
These are the six steps used by the Masters of Marriage in John Gottman’s four decades of research on marital stability (www.Gottman.com).  It is an excellent process for working though an argument or regrettable event.